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9/12/01 is the Day My Life Really Changed

Originally posted to Medium July 2001 — My first trip to NYC. Photo taken by my mom, the amazing photographer who made me a unicorn with the State of Liberty. I was very conflicted yesterday, just as I am on most anniversaries of 9/11 over the last twenty years....

My Personal Take: No Other Expected Outcome in Afghanistan

Kabul — former Soviet Officer’s Club near Darul Aman Palace Originally posted on Medium My final day in Jalalabad, November 2013 I deployed to Afghanistan three times as a DoD civilian intelligence officer from 2012 to 2015. Is the news out of Afghanistan...

Military Transition – My Story

Originally posted on LinkedIn Bottom Line Up Front - Every job I've had since the military involved networking, luck, and knowing what I wanted to do. If you skip to the end, I highlight my key lessons. I didn't have a typical transition from the military. I was...

A Day in the Life of a Product Manager

Originally published on LinkedIn Product Manager appears to be one of those ambiguous job titles that can mean completely different things in different industries or even different companies within industries. For the past 11 months, I’ve been a product manager of a...

Interview on Hazard Ground Podcast

Originally posted on the Life After Loyalty blog In 2017, I had the opportunity to share my story with Mark Zinno on the Hazard Ground Podcast. The episode published in April of 2018. It was honor to be able to share my story on the same platform as Medal of Honor...

I’ve Never Kept a Single New Year’s Resolution

Originally posted on LinkedIn It's that time of the year again, when so many of us will arbitrarily make very broad, hard-to-measure New Year's resolutions... "get healthy," "spend more time with my kids," "drink less," "exercise more." I'm not against New Year...

Ten Thoughts About My Darden Executive MBA Experience

Originally published on LinkedIn When I applied to the Executive MBA program at the University of Virginia’s Darden School of Business, I didn’t even know what I planned to do with the degree. I figured the worst case scenario was my MBA would be a valuable tool for...

Books That Can Change Everything.

Originally published on LinkedIn Thank you to everybody for the tremendous support after my article earlier this week, "It Took Me Nearly 40 Years to Figure Out What I Want to Do with My Life." Not only the comments, but some of the heartfelt messages I received and...

It Took Me Nearly 40 Years to Figure Out What I Want to Do with My Life

Originally published on LinkedIn For as long as I can remember, I always had a word to describe myself. From early childhood through graduating college, it was very easy: I was an athlete. After college, I enlisted in the U.S. Army the day after the 9/11 attacks and...

Trick or Treating on the Lawn

It's an annual tradition every fall in Charlottesville that started in the late 1980s. A day when the masses of costumed children get to interact face-to-face with costumed University of Virginia students and faculty on the famed UVA Lawn. The candy... donated by...

Small Insight into the Life of an OIF or OEF Veteran

Through the beauty of Facebook, I ended up clicking a link to a nearly two month old article that really hit home for me. I wasn’t alive for WWII, the Korean War, or the Vietnam War so I can only imagine what it was like for soldiers and their families based on...

Iraq and Afghanistan Veterans of America (IAVA)

I have always considered myself a team player. Growing up in Virginia, I started playing full-contact football in the Greater Manassas Football League (GMFL) when I was 7 years old. I learned the importance of teamwork, but I also learned the benefits of being part of...

Meet SGT Jenna

“I knew I’d be deploying to the Middle East eventually, but NEVER was I told I’d be going on patrols and laying in the prone with 11Bs [infantrymen], getting attacked by Al-Qaeda in Iraq (AQI) or Taliban. NEVER did I think I’d be working alongside Iraqi and Afghan...

World Famous Oatmeal Chocolate Chip Cookies

Ingredients: 1 3/4 c - flour 1 tsp - baking soda 1/2 tsp - salt 1 1/4 c - brown sugar 1 c - butter 1/2 c - sugar 2 - eggs 2 Tbsp - milk 2 tsp - vanilla 2 c - chocolate chips (semi-sweet) 2 1/2 c - quick oats Mix flour, baking soda and salt. Separately mix brown sugar,...

Preparing for Darden After 15 Years of No College

Getting accepted into Darden was a dream come true. After the stress of feeling unqualified for a top business school with a median GMAT score, history degree, and almost no actual private business experience, I then had about six months to both mentally and...

Being a Business School Student

The 14th anniversary of 9/11 just came to a close. It's kind of symbolic for me to be writing this post from the Darden Inn, the on-grounds lodging at the University of Virginia's business school, because when the first plane hit on the actual 9/11, I was driving...

Memorial Day 2014

I love America and I love that most Americans want to thank me for my service today. To all of them, I appreciate it, but I ask for one favor. Instead of turning your attention to me and fellow veterans, please take a moment to remember any one of the fallen veterans...

72 Hours in Rome

In January of 1999, I stood at Trevi Fountain, turned my back to the majestic pool and threw a U.S. quarter over my shoulder. I guess the tradition worked as I finally found myself standing at Rome’s Termini train station around 2pm on Thanksgiving Day. My parents and...